It’s really difficult to narrow down good choices when you’ve reviewed as many sex toys as I have but there are definitely some toys I always seem to reach for at the end of the day. People often ask for my personal recommendations–that is, my top choices without the specific needs or budget of the individual taken into consideration. The following is a list of my personal top choices in the sex toy industry. Rest assured, it will be updated if I discover something better!
I’m a self-proclaimed power-queen, but this wand exists to satisfy! It is the most powerful wand I’ve yet to own and its medical-grade PVC head is safer and easier to clean than the more-popular Hitachi massager wand. The button-control settings and mutli-speed/pulsing options for the Doxy are also vastly superior to the “off/low/high” switch options of the Hitachi Original Magic Wand, but they do come at a higher cost.
The Satisfyer Pro 2 is an interesting take on a vibrator. It’s not quite a wand, but it’s not a traditional insertable vibe, either. Instead, this toy is designed to use a gentle sucking motion to stimulate the user’s genitals. It is completely wireless, magnetically rechargeable, and easy to control. The removable head is made of 100% silicone and cups the clitoris to provide gentle vibrations and pulsating suction that just might lead to some pretty intense orgasms. Let’s just say it’s a good thing that this toy is completely waterproof! [Full Review]
Honestly, until I saw this model it never even occurred to me that ever single dildo I own is circumcised. This toy changed me, though. It opened my eyes to more realistic options I didn’t even think I needed until I did! It’s not just the novelty of an uncircumsised dildo that made this model appear on my top choice list, though! The Uncut #1 is actually a really great toy from an unbiased perspective. It’s part of Tantus’s O2 line, so has a dual-density silicone make-up that feels amazing! (Plus, let’s be real, it’s a great conversation-starter.) [Full Review]
Ordering the Vixskin Mustang was a pivotal point in my sex-toy-reviewing career. Up until reviewing it, I had only experienced silicone in the form of a traditional toys–meaning the thin, velvety coating on plastic vibrators. This completely changed how I looked at silicone toys. Vixskin was the first high-quality, body-safe silicone toy I owned and the enjoyment of its dual-density structure and realistic feel haven’t worn off on me. (I also give mine extra credit because of the “Tye-Bright” color. I’ve grown so sick of pink and purple dildos.) [Full Review]
When I heard Tantus had made silicone paddles, I vastly underestimated their power. I imaged them as being beginner-level paddles that would bore me in a few tries. I was wrong. The silicone paddles are all ranked highly in my collection. They are comfortable for the spanker, give a powerful bite for the spankee, and are very easy to clean if blood or other bodily fluids get on them. They even have a paddle with a handle that doubles as a dildo.
Nefarious Kinks makes a damn fine product. His paddles are hand-crafted from your choice of wood, and fully customizable! They’re fairly priced and so durable that they come with a, “You break it, I replace it!” policy. I can’t imagine mine ever breaking because it has such a solid construction, but like a true craftsman, NK backs up his work. His work is gorgeous and the heart-shaped paddle quickly became a favorite of mine. [Full Review]
Vampire gloves are black leather gloves with metal spikes embedded in the fingers. I bought my first pair for the intense spanking sessions I imagined having with them. However, if you’re not a masochist, they can also be used for very sensual sensation-play. I greatly appreciate both sides of the coin with these gloves, and definitely consider them one of my top kink toys. Whether you’re into hardcore spanking that leave you bleeding or light goosebump-provoking touches, these gloves are as exciting as they come!
I actually received my Liberator toy mount as a gift, and I wasn’t sure I’d get much use out of it at first but I quickly discovered that my age-old habit of riding pillows to climax would be a thing of the past. The Liberator toy mount provides an amazing experience for those who like to ride or grind their way to orgasm and can be used with an internal toy and a wand, if desired. The cover is also removable and machine washable, so cleaning is a breeze!