Vegan Toy Guide

A lot of people are familiar with veganism when it comes to food, but not many people consider it as an option when it comes to their sex life. Salem and I discuss why people go vegan in the bedroom and tell you about our favorite vegan retailers.

Body Writing

Body-writing is a largely versatile kink that anyone from beginners to those with years of experience can enjoy. It’s a simple activity for many kinksters and can often incorporate other kinks, as well. A little creativity and a writing tool is all you need to kick off an enjoyable evening.

Sexual Safety Kit

I always want to promote that sex and BDSM be practiced as safely as possible to avoid unnecessary risks and minimize unwanted pain. To make aftercare and sex safety more accessible for everyone, I suggest everyone invest in a “sex safety kit”.

Red Flags in BDSM

In order to maintain a healthy relationship, especially within the BDSM community, we need to be aware of signs of unhealthy behaviour. Of course, these red flags can appear in any kind of relationship–but it’s extra important when you’re in a relationship with a power-dynamic or a heightened risk of injury.

Wax Play

Wax play is a great activity that beginners and experienced kinksters can enjoy. It’s simple and pretty easy to do safely if you follow a few basic rules.

Sub Drop

Sub drop is a natural part of BDSM for some people, but it can be difficult to navigate. Learn to better understand what’s going on in you or your partner’s body and how to combat the negative side effects of kink.

Rape Play

Did you know it’s extremely common for survivors of assault to have rape fantasies? Read about how some survivors use “rape play” as a means to cope with sexual trauma.

Punishment Management

Discipline is part of the core focus of BDSM but what is punishment? How does it differ from “funishment?” Read about the psychology behind punishments and some examples you can use in your exploration of kink and behavior modification.

Safewords

Safewords are an important aspect of kink because they help establish consent and signal when someone needs to stop a scene. Read about how to properly use verbal safewords and other forms of consent signaling.

D/s Titles List

There are lots of various roles in kink dynamics, and just as many titles that people go by. Here are some examples of titles within certain dynamics that you could choose from.