STP (stand to pee) devices are primarily used by trans masculine folks to help with gender dysphoria and safely using men’s restrooms but they actually have many applications and anyone with a vagina can use them. Here’s five ways you could benefit from an STP device.
What’s the difference between water-based and silicone-based lubes? Are they all safe to use with condoms? Are they all safe to use with toys? Read up on the basics of sexual lubricants and find out how to find the best one for you!
A “munch” is a gathering of kinky people in a low-key, vanilla setting. They’re perfect for folks who want to meet kinky friends without the pressures of a play party. Learn all about what to expect at your first munch in this Q&A guide.
A lot of people are familiar with veganism when it comes to food, but not many people consider it as an option when it comes to their sex life. Salem and I discuss why people go vegan in the bedroom and tell you about our favorite vegan retailers.
Body-writing is a largely versatile kink that anyone from beginners to those with years of experience can enjoy. It’s a simple activity for many kinksters and can often incorporate other kinks, as well. A little creativity and a writing tool is all you need to kick off an enjoyable evening.
Wax play is a great activity that beginners and experienced kinksters can enjoy. It’s simple and pretty easy to do safely if you follow a few basic rules.
Sub drop is a natural part of BDSM for some people, but it can be difficult to navigate. Learn to better understand what’s going on in you or your partner’s body and how to combat the negative side effects of kink.
Sex toys are a major aspect of many people’s sexuality, either on their own or with partners. Whether it’s a large collection of everything from …
BDSM can turn out to be one expensive hobby/lifestyle. With the cost of toys, lingerie, gear, and furniture, the cost really adds up and can …
Interested in some new toys but don’t know where to find them? Take a look at our recommendations for all types of general sex toys, as well as kink toys and fetish clothing!
Subspace (noun): An altered, euphoric state of mind that some submissives/bottoms experience in intense scenes.
Long-distance relationships aren’t always easy. Read about keeping a strong connection even when you’re not with each other, how to set up a special date night, and what to send your loved one in a care package made just for them!
Did you know it’s extremely common for survivors of assault to have rape fantasies? Read about how some survivors use “rape play” as a means to cope with sexual trauma.
Discipline is part of the core focus of BDSM but what is punishment? How does it differ from “funishment?” Read about the psychology behind punishments and some examples you can use in your exploration of kink and behavior modification.
Safewords are an important aspect of kink because they help establish consent and signal when someone needs to stop a scene. Read about how to properly use verbal safewords and other forms of consent signaling.
Surprise, it’s actually a construct! Background on the concept of “virginity,” what to expect, and how to make the most of your first sexual experience.
Ice-branding uses a little bit of science to create temporary to semi-permanent marks on the skin that require a moderately low pain tolerance. Perfect for summer play!
Can I use a condom over a jelly toy? Is it safe to share a dildo with a partner? What makes a toy safe for anal? These answer and more!
There are lots of various roles in kink dynamics, and just as many titles that people go by. Here are some examples of titles within certain dynamics that you could choose from.
What is DDLG and the appeal to being “little?” Is it the same as being into ABDL? How Learn all about this kink and the types of dynamics and activities commonly associated with it.
Since the popularization of kink through the series “Fifty Shades of Grey,” I’ve gotten more and more inquires about the idea of BDSM contracts within …