Birth Control

There are many different types of birth control you can use based on your needs and preferences. Talk to your partner(s) and your doctor to find out which might work best for you. Read all about the different methods people commonly use.


What meaning does a collar hold? Is it always a sign of commitment? Learn the basic types of collars in the BDSM community and find out what each one generally means.

Behavior Modification

Behavior modification is my absolute biggest kink, but it’s one that most people don’t know much about or think of as an independent kink. It combines my love for submission, my studies in the field of psychology, and the on-going process of making myself a better human being.

Anal Sex

Anal play and anal sex are huge topics of interest for many people, but it’s something that folks are reluctant to explore sometimes. I get countless asks every week regarding anal sex or anal play, so I’ve decided to construct a guide about everything “anal.”

Sensory Deprivation/Overload

Sensory deprivation is a kink involving a restriction of the senses. By depriving a submissive of their basic senses, sexual stimulation may feel much more intense to them. This can be done by depriving the submissive of any number of senses, and any combination of them.


Aftercare is a really important aspect to BDSM that most people consider a requirement after scenes. Read about what aftercare is and how to use it efficiently.