Whether you’re a beginner to BDSM in general or just interested in trying something new, it can be difficult to know how to start exploring a new kink. Where do you look for information? How do you bring it up to a partner? How do you improve your skills? Here are some steps to help guide you through the process.
Hypnosis isn’t a new kink of mine, but it’s one I’ve only recent begun exploring the mechanics of. So much of my play this year has been focused around erotic hypnosis and I’ve experienced some really interesting things. Here are 15 of the incredible things I’ve done with erotic hypnosis.
Since everyone has personal preferences, you can’t just assume what your partner wants during sex. These five tips will help you learn how to communicate directly with your partner as well as pick up on the subtle things they like in bed.
Thinking about booking a session with a sex worker? Whether your goals are to learn a new skill, motivate yourself to be more productive, or to simply enjoy the company of a gorgeous companion, sex workers provide necessary services to countless people every day. Here are five common reasons people choose to hire a sex worker.
STP (stand to pee) devices are primarily used by trans masculine folks to help with gender dysphoria and safely using men’s restrooms but they actually have many applications and anyone with a vagina can use them. Here’s five ways you could benefit from an STP device.
I grew up in the Girl Scouts of America and it became a huge part of who I am today. I had the opportunity to experience so many great things growing up that I owe to the organization. Girl Scouting gave me the confidence to be a feminist…and the practical skills to be a kinkster.
If you’ve ever wondered about my name and what it means to be a submissive feminist, I’ve spelled it out for you in this piece. While it may seem “ironic” at first glance, I’ve grown to realize that it makes perfect sense to combine these identities. My sexual submission is a feminist act at the core.
As children, my friends and I imagined being sorted into our houses and attending classes at Hogwarts. However, now in my late 20s, I find myself wanting more information about the wizarding world through the perspective of adult witches. As a sex blogger, this begs the question: what would sexuality look like if the wizarding world of Harry Potter were real? Here are ten concepts from Harry Potter that could apply to the sex lives of witches and wizards alike.
Happy Halloween from Platonic Pillow Talk! This week, Jen and SF discuss all the gothic themes in kink and sex–including some kinky historical gossip they didn’t teach you in school. From horror movies that make us wet to anonymous masked sexual encounters, this episode is full of spooky sex talk. We’re not the only ones with a murder kink, right?
This week, SF and Jen discuss sensory deprivation and sensory overload. Learn about all the exciting and horrific ways you can play with your partner’s senses in a kinky scene. Combine multiple sense restrictions for even more fun!
A “munch” is a gathering of kinky people in a low-key, vanilla setting. They’re perfect for folks who want to meet kinky friends without the pressures of a play party. Learn all about what to expect at your first munch in this Q&A guide.
Everyone has a little fun fact about themselves. Some people can juggle or solve the Rubik’s cube. My talent is something I only share in front of a very specific audience: I can orgasm without any physical stimulation.
SF recaps her weekend adventures with a new partner that involves a cuckolding scene. She and Jen discuss the origin of the word cuckold and what the kink is all about.
Going to a play party and don’t know what to pack in your bag? I’ve got you covered! Read up on the ten essentials I never go to a play party without bringing.
This week, SF and Jen discuss the topic of kink shame. How do you cope with being ashamed of all your filthy kinks? SF delves into the psychology of fetishisms and discusses what sex therapy is really like. TW: Mention of incest role-play.
SF teaches Jen all about the kinky world of play parties. Featuring fireplay masters and apprentices, recreational electrocution, and ceremonial robes and hoods.
What defines our sexual orientation? Does it go beyond simply “gay” or “straight?” Within sexual sub-cultures, we may see several identities take shape to define us. Read about how the “who” is only part of what makes up our orientation.
The Leather Man is an interesting sex shop in the West Village of New York. As you can likely gather from its name, it has a large gay male clientele. Still, that didn’t stop me and four friends (none of which are gay men) from checking it out on a day in the city.
If you’re into mean, thuddy toys, check out the Hex Nut Impact Stick by RavenHawkToys. It’s heavy, compact, and packs one hell of a punch! Read about why I fell in love with this simple impact stick.
Agreeable Agony makes impact toys called “Petal Slappers” out of bicycle tubing and they’re a great, inexpensive toy to add to your collection!
Body-writing is a largely versatile kink that anyone from beginners to those with years of experience can enjoy. It’s a simple activity for many kinksters and can often incorporate other kinks, as well. A little creativity and a writing tool is all you need to kick off an enjoyable evening.