Years ago, I started keeping a spreadsheet of my sexual activity. Learn why I started, what formatting I use, and how I believe tracking your sexual encounters has several benefits.
Interested in visiting a sex shop but not sure what to expect? This piece will touch on some of the qualities that make a difference between a creepy sex shop and an empowering one. Be sure you’re going to a reputable shop for body-safe sex toys!
Do you have a bucket list? What about for sex? Most of us have goals in mind for things we’d like to try sexually before we die. Here are 25 ideas of things to add to your sexual bucket list!
Since everyone has personal preferences, you can’t just assume what your partner wants during sex. These five tips will help you learn how to communicate directly with your partner as well as pick up on the subtle things they like in bed.
If using sex toys or having penetrative sex is painful for you, you might want to consider dilator therapy. Vaginal dilators can help stretch the vagina to make penetration more comfortable over time and can be purchased in a kit to slowly work up in size.
Sure, masturbation feels good, but did you know that there are some pretty big health benefits to self-pleasuring? Most of us engage in masturbation regularly but if you needed another reason to get yourself off, here are seven!
If you write a ridiculous article about the mystifying “riddle” that is the clitoris, I’m going to respond with an equally ridiculous article to illustrate how absurd it would be to talk about the penis that way.
In this final episode, Jen and SF answer questions sent in from our listeners, discuss what we’ve experienced by doing this podcast, and say goodbye. Thank you all so much for listening! We never did manage to get intro music, did we?
During this Thanksgiving episode, Jen and SF discuss their appreciation for stuffing–both on the dinner table and in the bedroom. They discuss double and triple penetration, large toy insertions, birthing kinks, and what it’s like to experience “accidental fisting.”
As children, my friends and I imagined being sorted into our houses and attending classes at Hogwarts. However, now in my late 20s, I find myself wanting more information about the wizarding world through the perspective of adult witches. As a sex blogger, this begs the question: what would sexuality look like if the wizarding world of Harry Potter were real? Here are ten concepts from Harry Potter that could apply to the sex lives of witches and wizards alike.
This week SF and Jen discuss the wonderful world of orgasms! Learn about gender differences in orgasms and how to properly flex your kegels. Why do some people have such a hard time reaching orgasm and what can be done to help?
Happy Halloween from Platonic Pillow Talk! This week, Jen and SF discuss all the gothic themes in kink and sex–including some kinky historical gossip they didn’t teach you in school. From horror movies that make us wet to anonymous masked sexual encounters, this episode is full of spooky sex talk. We’re not the only ones with a murder kink, right?
SF and Jen discuss sex dreams and Jen’s strange concept of “sex nightmares.” Even in the most nightmarish of situations, she still manages to have sleep orgasms, which is a new concept for SF to grasp. Do any of you experience sex nightmares and/or sleep orgasms? Let us know!
This week, SF and Jen discuss the topic of dick size and the obsession with big dicks. What influence does the media have on our opinions about penis size? Does bigger always means better? How can you learn to be a better partner without relying on your dick?
This week, Jen and SF discuss some of the historical uses of different foods to increase libido. Does powdered rhino horn really make a difference for erectile dysfunction? Do oysters really make you horny? Learn about the evidence behind these mythical “love potions” and decide for yourself if any are worth trying.
This week it’s all about self-expression and body mods. SF and Jen talk about their personal experiences with piercings and tattoos relating to their confidence and sexuality. Maybe one day they’ll have the matching tattoos they dreamed up in middle school.
SF recaps her weekend adventures with a new partner that involves a cuckolding scene. She and Jen discuss the origin of the word cuckold and what the kink is all about.
I attended the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit this summer in Alexandria, VA. I got to meet a ton of other bloggers and learned some really important things. I could not be more grateful for the experiences I had at SFS18.
This week SF and Jen debunk the purity myth and discuss the roles that religion and virginity play in determining our moral value. They share their personal virginity stories and talk about how definitions of sex vary from person to person. How do you define virginity?
SF and Jen debate the use of sex robots. They melt their own brains talking about robots that can withdraw consent, the concept of sentience, and the ethical weirdness of sex toys modeled off of real people.
This week SF tells Jen about all the happenings of the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit, a sexuality conference she attended in Virginia. Hear about all the different workshops they had and what kinds of things she learned from it all.