Not sure how to clean your sex toys? No worries! In this guide, you’ll learn how to clean, maintain, and store your sex toys safely to ensure they’re kept clean and last as long as possible.
If strap-on sex or pegging appeals to you but you’re not sure where to start, this guide has what you need to learn the basics of strap-on sex, including how to choose the right products, how to ease into it, and how to wrap up a scene.
If using sex toys or having penetrative sex is painful for you, you might want to consider dilator therapy. Vaginal dilators can help stretch the vagina to make penetration more comfortable over time and can be purchased in a kit to slowly work up in size.
STP (stand to pee) devices are primarily used by trans masculine folks to help with gender dysphoria and safely using men’s restrooms but they actually have many applications and anyone with a vagina can use them. Here’s five ways you could benefit from an STP device.
What’s the difference between water-based and silicone-based lubes? Are they all safe to use with condoms? Are they all safe to use with toys? Read up on the basics of sexual lubricants and find out how to find the best one for you!
A “munch” is a gathering of kinky people in a low-key, vanilla setting. They’re perfect for folks who want to meet kinky friends without the pressures of a play party. Learn all about what to expect at your first munch in this Q&A guide.
A lot of people are familiar with veganism when it comes to food, but not many people consider it as an option when it comes to their sex life. Salem and I discuss why people go vegan in the bedroom and tell you about our favorite vegan retailers.
Sex toys can bring amazing pleasure, but they can also harbor bacteria and bring infections if you’re not careful. One of the most important factors in sex toy safety is the material your toys are made of. Don’t sweat, though! There are really simple guidelines to follow for most cases.
Body-writing is a largely versatile kink that anyone from beginners to those with years of experience can enjoy. It’s a simple activity for many kinksters and can often incorporate other kinks, as well. A little creativity and a writing tool is all you need to kick off an enjoyable evening.
Wax play is a great activity that beginners and experienced kinksters can enjoy. It’s simple and pretty easy to do safely if you follow a few basic rules.
Sub drop is a natural part of BDSM for some people, but it can be difficult to navigate. Learn to better understand what’s going on in you or your partner’s body and how to combat the negative side effects of kink.
Subspace (noun): An altered, euphoric state of mind that some submissives/bottoms experience in intense scenes.
Long-distance relationships aren’t always easy. Read about keeping a strong connection even when you’re not with each other, how to set up a special date night, and what to send your loved one in a care package made just for them!
Did you know it’s extremely common for survivors of assault to have rape fantasies? Read about how some survivors use “rape play” as a means to cope with sexual trauma.
Discipline is part of the core focus of BDSM but what is punishment? How does it differ from “funishment?” Read about the psychology behind punishments and some examples you can use in your exploration of kink and behavior modification.
Safewords are an important aspect of kink because they help establish consent and signal when someone needs to stop a scene. Read about how to properly use verbal safewords and other forms of consent signaling.
Surprise, it’s actually a construct! Background on the concept of “virginity,” what to expect, and how to make the most of your first sexual experience.
Ice-branding uses a little bit of science to create temporary to semi-permanent marks on the skin that require a moderately low pain tolerance. Perfect for summer play!
What is DDLG and the appeal to being “little?” Is it the same as being into ABDL? How Learn all about this kink and the types of dynamics and activities commonly associated with it.
Since the popularization of kink through the series “Fifty Shades of Grey,” I’ve gotten more and more inquires about the idea of BDSM contracts within …
Consent is one of the biggest themes of BDSM–if you don’t know that, you really need to read up before you pick up a paddle. …