Almost everyone has the idea of a dream house in mind but I just want my dream dungeon. If money were no object, what kind of sex toys would you buy yourself? Here are five sex toys and accessories that I would invest in for my ideal home dungeon.
As the year comes to a close, I want to take a moment to reflect on my last 12 months, share my favorite toys of 2019, and plan some goals for this blog in 2020.
Moving to a new house or apartment is really stressful! You shouldn’t have to worry about people poking through your stuff. Here are 5 tips to help maintain privacy when moving with a sex toy collection.
Years ago, I started keeping a spreadsheet of my sexual activity. Learn why I started, what formatting I use, and how I believe tracking your sexual encounters has several benefits.
Halloween may be primarily for children but there are definitely lots of ways to celebrate as an adult. Here are 7 ideas to spice up your Halloween to make it truly special.
Interested in visiting a sex shop but not sure what to expect? This piece will touch on some of the qualities that make a difference between a creepy sex shop and an empowering one. Be sure you’re going to a reputable shop for body-safe sex toys!
Do you have a bucket list? What about for sex? Most of us have goals in mind for things we’d like to try sexually before we die. Here are 25 ideas of things to add to your sexual bucket list!
Since everyone has personal preferences, you can’t just assume what your partner wants during sex. These five tips will help you learn how to communicate directly with your partner as well as pick up on the subtle things they like in bed.
When I contacted a suicide hotline back in January, I didn’t know what to expect. The process was a lot easier than I imagined. In fact, the hardest part was convincing myself to reach out in the first place.
Thinking about booking a session with a sex worker? Whether your goals are to learn a new skill, motivate yourself to be more productive, or to simply enjoy the company of a gorgeous companion, sex workers provide necessary services to countless people every day. Here are five common reasons people choose to hire a sex worker.
Curious what it’s like to do sex work? From stripping and sugaring to camming and photo sales, there are numerous jobs that appeal to different people to best suit their needs. Here’s an explanation of some of the services I offered in college and my experiences with them.
Sure, masturbation feels good, but did you know that there are some pretty big health benefits to self-pleasuring? Most of us engage in masturbation regularly but if you needed another reason to get yourself off, here are seven!
If you’re sexually active and have never been tested for STDs, you’re probably long overdue. While being nervous is completely understandable, there’s really nothing to an STD test. Read this Q&A guide on what to expect when you get tested for STDs so you’re prepared for your first time. Hopefully soon you’ll make it part of your regular health care routine.
If you write a ridiculous article about the mystifying “riddle” that is the clitoris, I’m going to respond with an equally ridiculous article to illustrate how absurd it would be to talk about the penis that way.
Seasonal depression is commonly associated with winter due to shorter days and lack of sunlight, but did you know some people experience seasonal depression in the spring? My battle with the early months of spring began many years ago, and it’s something I try to prepare myself for each year. If you’re struggling with your mental health during any season, here’s a few tips that help me.
Getting a tax refund this year? Looking to treat yourself to something fancy? What better to do with government money than buy something to fuck yourself with! For refunds small and large, here are my top ten toys worth blowing some extra cash on.
I grew up in the Girl Scouts of America and it became a huge part of who I am today. I had the opportunity to experience so many great things growing up that I owe to the organization. Girl Scouting gave me the confidence to be a feminist…and the practical skills to be a kinkster.
Breakups are some of the hardest things we experience in life. They’re painful and full of related stresses like financial instability, having to move, or potentially losing your best friend. Getting through a breakup is hard and may seem like a never-ending endeavor, but the pain will be manageable in time. Here’s some advice for surviving a breakup and dealing with a broken heart.
If you’ve ever wondered about my name and what it means to be a submissive feminist, I’ve spelled it out for you in this piece. While it may seem “ironic” at first glance, I’ve grown to realize that it makes perfect sense to combine these identities. My sexual submission is a feminist act at the core.
Galentine’s Day, a holiday for “ladies supporting ladies,” is celebrated on February 13th. Show your appreciation for all the special women in your life by giving them a gift. Not sure what to get? Here are 13 suggestions for the perfect Galentine’s Day gift.
Something I’ve noticed a lot during my years as a sex toy reviewer is that many companies use human names for their sex toys. It’s always irked me just a little bit, but for a while I couldn’t quite put my finger on why. However, I think it’s time we have a discussion about this practice and how we can improve people’s sex-toy-buying experiences by avoiding it entirely.