5 Things Sex Bloggers are Tired of Hearing

As a sex blogger, I interact with a lot of people online who are interested in discussing sexuality and what I do in the field but I keep hearing some of the same things from folks who don’t seen to realize that they’re actually being quite rude or dismissive. Here’s a list of the top five things I wish people would stop saying to sex bloggers.

Making Magic in the Bedroom: 10 Sexuality Concepts from the Wizarding World

As children, my friends and I imagined being sorted into our houses and attending classes at Hogwarts. However, now in my late 20s, I find myself wanting more information about the wizarding world through the perspective of adult witches. As a sex blogger, this begs the question: what would sexuality look like if the wizarding world of Harry Potter were real? Here are ten concepts from Harry Potter that could apply to the sex lives of witches and wizards alike.

Remote-Controlled Toys

Remote-controlled toys are a fantastic addition to anyone’s sex toy collection. Whether you like to use them as flirty foreplay from across the room, an act of dominance from across the bar, or as an intimate connection from across the globe, they are bringing people together like never before.

How to be an Ally to Your Trans Partner

When I started dating my transgender boyfriend almost two years ago, I had a lot of questions I wasn’t sure how to ask. Thankfully, my partner was very open and taught me a lot about what it means to love someone who is trans. If you are new to dating a transgender person, here are some guidelines to make it easier for you both.

My IUD Insert: A Love Story

IUDs have over a 99% effectiveness rating, making it one of the most effective forms of birth control available. Since everyone’s experience with getting the IUD can vary, I wasn’t sure what to expect with my IUD insert. Looking back, though, I wouldn’t trade it for anything.

Sex Tour: The Leather Man (New York, NY)

The Leather Man is an interesting sex shop in the West Village of New York. As you can likely gather from its name, it has a large gay male clientele. Still, that didn’t stop me and four friends (none of which are gay men) from checking it out on a day in the city.

Weight Discrimination in the Medical Community

We like to think our medical professionals are free from biases, but they are no different from the rest of the world. When I saw a doctor for an infection in 2014, I had no idea how badly the discrimination I faced would affect my ability to receive medical care for almost a year.