5 Reasons to Hire a Sex Worker

Thinking about booking a session with a sex worker? Whether your goals are to learn a new skill, motivate yourself to be more productive, or to simply enjoy the company of a gorgeous companion, sex workers provide necessary services to countless people every day. Here are five common reasons people choose to hire a sex worker.

Confessions of a College Sex Worker

Curious what it’s like to do sex work? From stripping and sugaring to camming and photo sales, there are numerous jobs that appeal to different people to best suit their needs. Here’s an explanation of some of the services I offered in college and my experiences with them.

7 Benefits of Masturbation

Sure, masturbation feels good, but did you know that there are some pretty big health benefits to self-pleasuring? Most of us engage in masturbation regularly but if you needed another reason to get yourself off, here are seven!

What To Expect When You Get Tested for STIs

If you’re sexually active and have never been tested for STDs, you’re probably long overdue. While being nervous is completely understandable, there’s really nothing to an STD test. Read this Q&A guide on what to expect when you get tested for STDs so you’re prepared for your first time. Hopefully soon you’ll make it part of your regular health care routine.

How To Bewitch a Penis

If you write a ridiculous article about the mystifying “riddle” that is the clitoris, I’m going to respond with an equally ridiculous article to illustrate how absurd it would be to talk about the penis that way.

Springtime Sadness: Coping with Seasonal Depression

Seasonal depression is commonly associated with winter due to shorter days and lack of sunlight, but did you know some people experience seasonal depression in the spring? My battle with the early months of spring began many years ago, and it’s something I try to prepare myself for each year. If you’re struggling with your mental health during any season, here’s a few tips that help me.

10 Sex Toys Worth Blowing Your Tax Return On

Getting a tax refund this year? Looking to treat yourself to something fancy? What better to do with government money than buy something to fuck yourself with! For refunds small and large, here are my top ten toys worth blowing some extra cash on.

Healing After Heartbreak: A Breakup Survival Guide

Breakups are some of the hardest things we experience in life. They’re painful and full of related stresses like financial instability, having to move, or potentially losing your best friend. Getting through a breakup is hard and may seem like a never-ending endeavor, but the pain will be manageable in time. Here’s some advice for surviving a breakup and dealing with a broken heart.

5 Ways My Sexual Submission Reflects Feminism

If you’ve ever wondered about my name and what it means to be a submissive feminist, I’ve spelled it out for you in this piece. While it may seem “ironic” at first glance, I’ve grown to realize that it makes perfect sense to combine these identities. My sexual submission is a feminist act at the core.

13 Fantastic Galentine’s Day Gift Ideas

Galentine’s Day, a holiday for “ladies supporting ladies,” is celebrated on February 13th. Show your appreciation for all the special women in your life by giving them a gift. Not sure what to get? Here are 13 suggestions for the perfect Galentine’s Day gift.

A Dildo by Any Other Name

Something I’ve noticed a lot during my years as a sex toy reviewer is that many companies use human names for their sex toys. It’s always irked me just a little bit, but for a while I couldn’t quite put my finger on why. However, I think it’s time we have a discussion about this practice and how we can improve people’s sex-toy-buying experiences by avoiding it entirely.

SF’s Top 5 Toys of 2018

As 2018 comes to a close, I reflect on the top five sex toys I experienced this year, which toys my partners liked best, and which toys I have my eye on for the upcoming year. What were your favorite toys of 2018?

2018 Reflections & New Year’s Goals

As the year comes to a close, I wanted to reflect on what I’ve accomplished but also lay out some goals for this blog in the new year. Here’s what my year looked like and my hopes for what’s to come in 2019.

5 Things Sex Bloggers are Tired of Hearing

As a sex blogger, I interact with a lot of people online who are interested in discussing sexuality and what I do in the field but I keep hearing some of the same things from folks who don’t seen to realize that they’re actually being quite rude or dismissive. Here’s a list of the top five things I wish people would stop saying to sex bloggers.

The Problem with Princess Plugs

“Princess Plugs,” as they’re known, are a very popular anal toy. Unfortunately, many people are unaware of the safety issues with this particular style of plug. Find out what makes this plug so dangerous and what better alternatives are out there.

Making Magic in the Bedroom: 10 Sexuality Concepts from the Wizarding World

As children, my friends and I imagined being sorted into our houses and attending classes at Hogwarts. However, now in my late 20s, I find myself wanting more information about the wizarding world through the perspective of adult witches. As a sex blogger, this begs the question: what would sexuality look like if the wizarding world of Harry Potter were real? Here are ten concepts from Harry Potter that could apply to the sex lives of witches and wizards alike.

My Toxic Relationship With Porn

My relationship with porn has always been complicated. For years, it was something I found to be personally degrading but I still supported it as a means of pleasure for others. It wasn’t until recently, however, that I found out how to make it pleasurable for myself.