New to exploring kink and not sure which toys to try first? Here are 10 must-try kink toys I recommend for beginners looking to expand their toolbox and dive deeper into their kinky fantasies.
Hypnosis isn’t a new kink of mine, but it’s one I’ve only recent begun exploring the mechanics of. So much of my play this year has been focused around erotic hypnosis and I’ve experienced some really interesting things. Here are 15 of the incredible things I’ve done with erotic hypnosis.
Moving to a new house or apartment is really stressful! You shouldn’t have to worry about people poking through your stuff. Here are 5 tips to help maintain privacy when moving with a sex toy collection.
Years ago, I started keeping a spreadsheet of my sexual activity. Learn why I started, what formatting I use, and how I believe tracking your sexual encounters has several benefits.
Halloween may be primarily for children but there are definitely lots of ways to celebrate as an adult. Here are 7 ideas to spice up your Halloween to make it truly special.
Do you have a bucket list? What about for sex? Most of us have goals in mind for things we’d like to try sexually before we die. Here are 25 ideas of things to add to your sexual bucket list!
Since everyone has personal preferences, you can’t just assume what your partner wants during sex. These five tips will help you learn how to communicate directly with your partner as well as pick up on the subtle things they like in bed.
When I contacted a suicide hotline back in January, I didn’t know what to expect. The process was a lot easier than I imagined. In fact, the hardest part was convincing myself to reach out in the first place.
Thinking about booking a session with a sex worker? Whether your goals are to learn a new skill, motivate yourself to be more productive, or to simply enjoy the company of a gorgeous companion, sex workers provide necessary services to countless people every day. Here are five common reasons people choose to hire a sex worker.
If you’re sexually active and have never been tested for STDs, you’re probably long overdue. While being nervous is completely understandable, there’s really nothing to an STD test. Read this Q&A guide on what to expect when you get tested for STDs so you’re prepared for your first time. Hopefully soon you’ll make it part of your regular health care routine.
Getting a tax refund this year? Looking to treat yourself to something fancy? What better to do with government money than buy something to fuck yourself with! For refunds small and large, here are my top ten toys worth blowing some extra cash on.
I grew up in the Girl Scouts of America and it became a huge part of who I am today. I had the opportunity to experience so many great things growing up that I owe to the organization. Girl Scouting gave me the confidence to be a feminist…and the practical skills to be a kinkster.
Breakups are some of the hardest things we experience in life. They’re painful and full of related stresses like financial instability, having to move, or potentially losing your best friend. Getting through a breakup is hard and may seem like a never-ending endeavor, but the pain will be manageable in time. Here’s some advice for surviving a breakup and dealing with a broken heart.
If you’ve ever wondered about my name and what it means to be a submissive feminist, I’ve spelled it out for you in this piece. While it may seem “ironic” at first glance, I’ve grown to realize that it makes perfect sense to combine these identities. My sexual submission is a feminist act at the core.
As the year comes to a close, I wanted to reflect on what I’ve accomplished but also lay out some goals for this blog in the new year. Here’s what my year looked like and my hopes for what’s to come in 2019.
As a sex blogger, I interact with a lot of people online who are interested in discussing sexuality and what I do in the field but I keep hearing some of the same things from folks who don’t seen to realize that they’re actually being quite rude or dismissive. Here’s a list of the top five things I wish people would stop saying to sex bloggers.
As children, my friends and I imagined being sorted into our houses and attending classes at Hogwarts. However, now in my late 20s, I find myself wanting more information about the wizarding world through the perspective of adult witches. As a sex blogger, this begs the question: what would sexuality look like if the wizarding world of Harry Potter were real? Here are ten concepts from Harry Potter that could apply to the sex lives of witches and wizards alike.
My relationship with porn has always been complicated. For years, it was something I found to be personally degrading but I still supported it as a means of pleasure for others. It wasn’t until recently, however, that I found out how to make it pleasurable for myself.
For this date night, you and you partner go into a superstore with a quest to buy each other a gift assortment under an agreed upon budget. What kinds of thoughtful, silly, or useful items can you find for them? No peeking until you’re home!
I had the pleasure of stopping by a boutique in Alexandria called Lotus Blooms while at a sexuality conference down in VA. The sex toys were all body-safe, the staff were friendly and knowledgeable, and the atmosphere was everything I could ask for in a sex shop.
IUDs have over a 99% effectiveness rating, making it one of the most effective forms of birth control available. Since everyone’s experience with getting the IUD can vary, I wasn’t sure what to expect with my IUD insert. Looking back, though, I wouldn’t trade it for anything.