5 Reasons to Hire a Sex Worker

Thinking about booking a session with a sex worker? Whether your goals are to learn a new skill, motivate yourself to be more productive, or to simply enjoy the company of a gorgeous companion, sex workers provide necessary services to countless people every day. Here are five common reasons people choose to hire a sex worker.

What To Expect When You Get Tested for STIs

If you’re sexually active and have never been tested for STDs, you’re probably long overdue. While being nervous is completely understandable, there’s really nothing to an STD test. Read this Q&A guide on what to expect when you get tested for STDs so you’re prepared for your first time. Hopefully soon you’ll make it part of your regular health care routine.

10 Sex Toys Worth Blowing Your Tax Return On

Getting a tax refund this year? Looking to treat yourself to something fancy? What better to do with government money than buy something to fuck yourself with! For refunds small and large, here are my top ten toys worth blowing some extra cash on.

Healing After Heartbreak: A Breakup Survival Guide

Breakups are some of the hardest things we experience in life. They’re painful and full of related stresses like financial instability, having to move, or potentially losing your best friend. Getting through a breakup is hard and may seem like a never-ending endeavor, but the pain will be manageable in time. Here’s some advice for surviving a breakup and dealing with a broken heart.

5 Ways My Sexual Submission Reflects Feminism

If you’ve ever wondered about my name and what it means to be a submissive feminist, I’ve spelled it out for you in this piece. While it may seem “ironic” at first glance, I’ve grown to realize that it makes perfect sense to combine these identities. My sexual submission is a feminist act at the core.

2018 Reflections & New Year’s Goals

As the year comes to a close, I wanted to reflect on what I’ve accomplished but also lay out some goals for this blog in the new year. Here’s what my year looked like and my hopes for what’s to come in 2019.

5 Things Sex Bloggers are Tired of Hearing

As a sex blogger, I interact with a lot of people online who are interested in discussing sexuality and what I do in the field but I keep hearing some of the same things from folks who don’t seen to realize that they’re actually being quite rude or dismissive. Here’s a list of the top five things I wish people would stop saying to sex bloggers.

Making Magic in the Bedroom: 10 Sexuality Concepts from the Wizarding World

As children, my friends and I imagined being sorted into our houses and attending classes at Hogwarts. However, now in my late 20s, I find myself wanting more information about the wizarding world through the perspective of adult witches. As a sex blogger, this begs the question: what would sexuality look like if the wizarding world of Harry Potter were real? Here are ten concepts from Harry Potter that could apply to the sex lives of witches and wizards alike.

My Toxic Relationship With Porn

My relationship with porn has always been complicated. For years, it was something I found to be personally degrading but I still supported it as a means of pleasure for others. It wasn’t until recently, however, that I found out how to make it pleasurable for myself.

Sex Tour: Lotus Blooms (Alexandria, VA)

I had the pleasure of stopping by a boutique in Alexandria called Lotus Blooms while at a sexuality conference down in VA. The sex toys were all body-safe, the staff were friendly and knowledgeable, and the atmosphere was everything I could ask for in a sex shop.

My IUD Insert: A Love Story

IUDs have over a 99% effectiveness rating, making it one of the most effective forms of birth control available. Since everyone’s experience with getting the IUD can vary, I wasn’t sure what to expect with my IUD insert. Looking back, though, I wouldn’t trade it for anything.