How to Introduce Kink to Your Relationship

Whether you’re a beginner to BDSM in general or just interested in trying something new, it can be difficult to know how to start exploring a new kink. Where do you look for information? How do you bring it up to a partner? How do you improve your skills? Here are some steps to help guide you through the process.

Goodbye, Tumblr

Tumblr’s finally cracked down on NSFW blogs, which means I’m out of a community I’ve known and loved for 10 years but I wanted to give Tumblr my proper goodbyes.

Review: Xocity 3-in-1 Waterproof Rabbit Vibrator

This Xocity rabbit vibrator has multiple vibrating, flicking, and thrusting settings to be sure you find one that works for your body. The arm extension has a silicone tongue for clitoral stimulation and the whole arm easily bends to accommodate different bodies. If you’re interest in thrusting toys but can’t afford more luxury brands, this is good a body-safe alternative.

7 Sexy Things to Do During Quarantine

COVID-19 changed reality as we know it–at least for the time being. People are working remotely, large events have been canceled, and most of the world is still stuck in quarantine. Why not take advantage of your time indoors and have some sexy fun with it?

Choosing the Right Place to Buy Sex Toys

If you’re new to buying sex toys, you might not know where to start looking. Whether you’re buying online or a local sex shop, there are ways to make sure you’re shopping somewhere reliable and trustworthy. Here are my guidelines for choosing the right shop to make your sex toy purchases from.

5 Tips for Dating While Polyamorous

Trying to find a partner when you’re single is one thing, but when you’re in a non-monogamous relationship and you’re looking for new connections, it can be difficult to know where to start. Where do you even begin looking for polyamorous partners? How do you start talking to someone about the fact that you’re already seeing someone? If you’re new to non-monogamy or just haven’t quite mastered it so far, keep these five dating tips in mind.

Sex Tour: EEEHU Online Hypnosis Conference

In the midst of COVID-19, conferences all over the globe have had to cancel their in-person events but NEEHU, an erotic hypnosis conference, moved its classes online and we still managed to have a blast under its new name, EEEHU. If you’ve ever been curious about hypnosis, check out my recap of the weekend’s events!

Review: Uberrime Sensi Vaginal Plug

The Uberrime Sensi is a small and simple toy with some really exciting applications. It’s the first “vaginal plug” in my sex toy collection and while any user can enjoy it, I’ve had a lot of fun intergrating it into my D/s dynamic. Is this squishy glittery dildo the thing that’s missing from your toy box?

10 Things You Should Know Before Going to a Sex Shop

If you’ve never been to a sex shop before, you might not know what to look for or expect. I certainly wish someone had told me a few things about sex toys before I made my first purchase. Here’s a list of 10 things you should know before going to your first sex shop.